How to say No?

“No” is never an easy answer. It’s rude, unhelpful, cold-blooded, selfish and etc for some, and saying NO means kicking out the kind person role and playing the evil role. Which is why, most of us stuck in the junction of choices, afraid of voicing out the true voice within.

If you choose the opposite of NO, that’s YES. You might be seen as a helpful and kind-hearted person but not to forget the effort you have to put in behind scene,for the promises that you afraid to reject, the task you unwillingly accepted. Well, it’s not really that bad to say YES sometimes but it depends on one’s self-capability. Do not go beyond the limit. Not in all cases that you will be seen as the super kind person. In certain cases, people take opportunities over you and start slave-driving you. If at that point of time, NO is still a hard word to say, then I‘ll say, it serves you right.

Saying NO might equal to mean but for self-benefit aspect, you are really saving your own life. You do not have to spend extra time cracking your head and anxious for the promises you had picky swore. It’s completely freedom. But, do prepare for the criticism from others after turning them down. They might hate you and sneer you at your back. This is the consequence of the mighty powerful word because the evil role started playing once N.O was said.

No and Yes, a choice between the role you are about to take up. Should one consider other people’s thinking more or putting self as priority?