“No” is never an easy answer. It’s rude,
unhelpful, cold-blooded, selfish and etc for some, and saying NO means kicking
out the kind person role and playing the evil role. Which is why, most of us
stuck in the junction of choices, afraid of voicing out the true voice within.
If you choose the opposite of NO, that’s
YES. You might be seen as a helpful and kind-hearted person but not to forget
the effort you have to put in behind scene,for the promises that you afraid to
reject, the task you unwillingly accepted. Well, it’s not really that bad to
say YES sometimes but it depends on one’s self-capability. Do not go beyond the
limit. Not in all cases that you will be seen as the super kind person. In
certain cases, people take opportunities over you and start slave-driving you.
If at that point of time, NO is still a hard word to say, then I‘ll say, it
serves you right.
Saying NO might equal to mean but for self-benefit
aspect, you are really saving your own life. You do not have to spend extra
time cracking your head and anxious for the promises you had picky swore. It’s
completely freedom. But, do prepare for the criticism from others after turning
them down. They might hate you and sneer you at your back. This is the consequence
of the mighty powerful word because the evil role started playing once N.O
was said.
No and Yes, a choice between the role you
are about to take up. Should one consider other people’s thinking more or
putting self as priority?
